We have to watch ourselves, like we are the directors and script-writers of the play(s) that we are acting in, and try to be sure that all that we say and do is motivated by love for the planet and its features, and for the people and other life around us, including ourselves, in the best way.
When we are not motivated by that love, and it can take many forms, we are choosing to be stalled in the apparent time period in the evolution of our world and our humanity when motivations were otherwise.